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Being a part of a group, or even a church, doesn’t mean you feel like you “belong.” In this episode, David Kim of Made to Belong helps us explore what it takes to build a community of belonging. You will learn about five practices he has identified for cultivating community in a disconnected world both inside and outside of our inherited forms of church.
David Kim – David Kim is the discipleship and formation pastor at WestGate Church in Silicon Valley, California and author of Made To Belong. He completed M.Div and Th.M from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary and his children’s book on dealing with change was selected for Oprah’s Favorite Things list. He cares deeply about the intersection of spiritual formation, theology, mental health, and the cultivation of authentic Christian communities. He lives with his wife and two daughters in San Jose, California. You can connect with him at www.davidjanghyunkim.com
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Interview Summary
“We want to be known. But if you do not open up, then how can we be truly known to begin with?” – David Kim
In this episode of the Fresh Expressions podcast, host Heather Jillad explores the pressing issue of loneliness and community building with guest David Kim. David brings a unique perspective, drawing from his experiences as a South Korean immigrant and his role in pastoral care in Silicon Valley. The conversation delves deep into the importance of vulnerability, empathy, and intentional community-building practices that can help combat the loneliness epidemic prevalent in today’s society.
Exploring the Core Ideas: Building a Belonging Community
The Role of the Church in Addressing Loneliness
Heather and David dives into the critical role the church plays in addressing the pervasive loneliness epidemic by fostering deeper, meaningful community connections. They discuss how the church can serve as a foundational platform for nurturing relationships that extend beyond superficial interactions, thereby offering a tangible remedy to isolation. This conversation underscores the church’s potential to act as a community hub where individuals can find belonging and support in a fragmented world.
“We’re focusing on community and building community and connection and the ways and the roles of the church can play in that.” – Heather Jallad
David’s Five Practices for Cultivating Community
- Priority: Commitment to showing up and being present is foundational.
- Chemistry: Building connections with those we resonate with can enhance community bonds.
- Vulnerability: Opening up to others is crucial for genuine relationships.
“Vulnerability is truly the way for us to open our lives and our hearts to one another.” – David Kim
- Empathy: Responding to others’ vulnerabilities with understanding and compassion.
- Accountability: Ensuring that community members are supporting each other in their spiritual growth and personal well-being.
Challenges and Opportunities
Addressing the challenges and opportunities associated with cultural diversity, David emphasizes the importance of inclusivity within community building. He highlights how adapting to societal changes, including the impacts of the digital revolution, is crucial for communities to remain relevant and supportive. The discussion points out that cultural diversity not only introduces challenges but also enriches community efforts, suggesting that a nuanced understanding and integration of diverse cultural elements are essential for fostering strong, cohesive communities in today’s dynamic societal landscape.
This episode of the Fresh Expressions podcast provides valuable insights into the importance of community and the power of belonging. David Kim’s personal experiences and professional practices offer a roadmap for building stronger, more inclusive communities that can withstand the challenges of modern life. As we navigate the complexities of connection in an increasingly isolated world, the lessons shared here are more pertinent than ever.
“The goal of our small group is… so that we can become all that Jesus is longing us to be.” – David Kim
Reflection Questions
- How do you see the role of vulnerability in your own relationships and community involvements?
- What practices can you adopt to enhance the sense of belonging in your community?
- What are some ways you can show empathy in your daily interactions?
- How can accountability be fostered in a supportive, non-judgmental way?
- How can the concept of prioritizing community involvement be more effectively communicated and practiced in your area?
- How has the digital age affected your sense of community and personal connections?
