This article emerged from the Fresh Expressions Podcast episode “Finding Belonging” featuring David Kim, author of Made to Belong. To listen to the full conversation, visit . Across North America, church leaders are asking important questions about how to connect with college students and young adults. Many campuses are filled with opportunities to connect, yet meaningful community often remains elusive. Despite being surrounded by classmates, roommates, organizations, and online networks, many students still struggle to find places where they feel truly known. The challenge facing churches is not simply how to gather students into a room. It is how to cultivate spaces where people can experience belonging. In a conversation on the Fresh Expressions Podcast, David Kim, author of Made to Belong , reflected on his own journey of loneliness, belonging, and community. Born in South Korea and moving to the United States at age ten, David experienced firsthand the challenges of finding connection in an unfamiliar culture. As he reflected on both his personal story and his years of pastoral ministry, he came to a realization: “I realized that wait a minute—I’m not the only one struggling with loneliness. So many of our people are coming into the church community longing and desperate for deeper spiritual friendships and communities.” While David’s comments were not directed specifically toward college students, they name a reality that many campus ministers, pastors, and church leaders encounter every day. Beneath the activity, busyness, and constant connection of modern life is a deep desire to be known. Belonging Often Begins with Shared Interests One of the practices David identifies in his work is what he calls “chemistry.” For some Christians, that word may feel uncomfortable. Aren’t we supposed to love everyone equally? David suggests a more nuanced approach. He explains, “There is actually a way for us to love all and still be okay to lean into the few that God is highlighting in our lives.” Host Heather Jallad immediately connected this idea to the Fresh Expressions movement, observing that “a lot of these Fresh Expressions of church kind of develop around affinity groups.” That observation helps explain why many Fresh Expressions begin not with a worship service, Bible study, or church program, but with a shared interest, hobby, passion, or experience. Again and again, we see relationships develop when people gather around something they already enjoy together. Several years ago, a member of our church in Blacksburg, Virginia, began wondering what might happen if her love of hiking became a place for spiritual connection. Emma, an avid hiker, noticed that many people in our region found meaning, reflection, and even a sense of God’s presence while spending time outdoors. Rather than waiting for a church committee to launch a ministry, she simply invited others to experiment with her. The first hikes included moments of silence, prayer, reflection, and conversation. Participants were invited to pay attention to creation through their senses and notice where God might be speaking or inviting them deeper. What began as a simple invitation created opportunities for meaningful spiritual conversations among people who already shared a love for the outdoors. We’ve seen this same principle surface in a variety of experiments among college students and young adults. Some have gathered around intramural sports, discovering that shared practices, regular rhythms of games, and post winning (or defeat) milkshake runs create natural opportunities for friendship. Others have explored communities built around gaming and shared interests that provide a low-pressure environment for students to spend time together, build relationships, and eventually engage in deeper conversations about life and faith. The common thread in each of these examples is not the activity itself. Hiking, sports, and gaming are simply the contexts. The deeper reality is that people are often more willing to explore questions of faith after they have first experienced a sense of belonging. Shared interests create space for trust, friendship, and community to develop naturally. Belonging Happens Around Tables Not every Fresh Expression begins on a hiking trail or athletic field. Some begin around a dinner table. At First Church in Williamsport, Pennsylvania, a ministry called Sunday Slowdown creates space for college students to step away from the pressures of campus life. The gathering centers around a home-cooked meal, board games, and a simple invitation to set phones aside and be fully present with the people in the room. In a season of life often marked by deadlines, constant notifications, and increasing isolation, Sunday Slowdown offers something many students deeply need: a place to slow down and be known. This desire to be known is one of the central themes David returns to throughout his conversation with Heather. Reflecting on the role of vulnerability in healthy community, he asks, “We want to be known but if you do not open up then how can we be truly known to begin with?” Genuine belonging requires more than simply occupying the same room. It requires trust, openness, and the willingness to share life together. Gatherings like Sunday Slowdown remind us that meaningful community is often built through ordinary practices. Sharing a meal, playing a game, listening to another person’s story, or simply being fully present can create the conditions where deeper relationships begin to form. While these moments may appear simple from the outside, they often become the foundation for significant spiritual conversations and lasting friendships. Beyond Content Toward Connection Many churches work hard to create opportunities for learning and discipleship. Bible studies, classes, and small groups remain important tools for spiritual growth. Yet David offers a helpful challenge for those leading communities. “When your group is primarily about regurgitating content, then you’re not really able to forge meaningful relationships.” David is quick to clarify that he loves Scripture and values Bible study. The issue is not the content itself. The issue is stopping there. As he explains: “We have to move on from being just regurgitating content to how that content is affecting and shaping and forming our lives.” This insight may be particularly important when considering ministry among college students and young adults. Many students are not looking for another lecture. They are looking for people who will walk alongside them. They are looking for spaces where questions are welcomed, stories are shared, and faith becomes something lived rather than simply discussed. Heather reflected on this same reality from her experience helping leaders start Fresh Expressions. “I’ve encouraged them to lead with their own limitations rather than walking in the room and saying, ‘I’ve got all the answers.’” Authentic community is rarely built through expertise alone. More often, it grows through honesty, curiosity, and a willingness to journey together. A Question Worth Asking As church leaders consider ministry among college students, young adults, and emerging generations, perhaps the first question is not: “What program should we start?” Perhaps the better question is: Where are people already finding connection? Around meals? On hiking trails? Through intramural sports? In gaming communities? Around creative projects? Through service opportunities? Through shared passions? The Fresh Expressions movement has discovered time and again that belonging often begins in ordinary places and through ordinary experiences. Long before people are ready to explore faith, they are often looking for friendship. Long before they are looking for a church service, they are often looking for a place where they can be known. The goal is not to create an activity for students. The goal is to discover where God may already be creating opportunities for belonging. What shared experiences already exist around your campus? Where are students already gathering? What passions, interests, hobbies, or needs might become the starting point for meaningful relationships? What if the next Fresh Expression among college students begins not with a program, but with belonging? These are some of the questions we continue to explore together during the Fresh Expression Incubators.
What happens when the trail becomes a place of belonging, spiritual conversation, and encounter with God? In this episode, Heather Jallad sits down with Jeff Wadley as he shares how “creation immersion” has opened unexpected opportunities for community, discipleship, and spiritual formation along the hiking trail. Together they explore the idea of wilderness as a “thin place” — where the presence of God feels especially near — and reflect on the ways hikers are finding connection, belonging, and even “tramily” along the journey. From the songbook of creation to the sacred rhythms of the trail, this conversation invites listeners to imagine how shared experiences outdoors can become spaces where people encounter both community and the presence of God. Jeff “Rocky Top” Wadley is the 2026 Appalachian Trail Thru Hiker Chaplain commissioned by the Holston Conference. He is a native of Gatlinburg, TN, married to Joy and they have three children and a very smart grandson. Jeff has just retired as a Clergy from Holston who started Camp Bays Mountain eleven years ago. When not hiking the AT Jeff can be found canoeing in the Minnesota Boundary Waters Wilderness, on a search mission in the Smokies, or helping churches and ministry teams marshaling funds for ministry. This season, we’re diving into the streams of Fresh Expressions — from senior adults and recovery ministry, to arts, outdoors, recreation, and more. Each month, you’ll hear directly from practitioners who are navigating these fresh ways of being church in the world. Their stories will spark your imagination and encourage you to see where God is already at work in your community and how you might join in! So whether you’re a pastor, lay leader, or simply curious about how church can thrive beyond the walls, join us for Season seven of the Fresh Expressions Podcast. Related Resources:
In 2021, I was a first-time lead pastor of a small congregation. I was single, paying my own bills, and wondering whether my next paycheck from the church would arrive on time. In that season, God clearly spoke to me and said that the church needed to plant a Dinner Church. I remember praying, “God, I need to grow this church. How do you expect me to start a whole new one?” God challenged my heart by reminding me that He had called me to the community I was in. I was forfeiting influence in most of the community because I was determined to stay in the church. The first night of Dinner Church was a huge step of faith, both personally and for our dying congregation. Over the last four and a half years, we’ve learned that funding a Dinner Church isn’t about having a large budget. It’s about building relationships, stewarding resources creatively, and trusting God’s provision. Here a menu of the most practical ways we’ve funded a weekly Jesus table in our community. Offering Box Each week, we placed a locked offering box on the dessert table. From the microphone, whoever is giving announcements that week will say something like, “The food here is always free! But if you would like to donate toward future meals, there’s a donation bin on the dessert table!” On average, we receive about one dollar per person in attendance. Keep it low-pressure and consistent. Over time, people begin to take ownership of the table. Community Connections Your mayor and town leaders have a vested interest in providing resources to the community. About twice a year, I go to our public town council meeting. I stand up during public comment, introduce myself, and give a 2-minute overview of our weekly meals. At the end, I give each council member a flyer and remind them that we are a resource if they come across anyone in need. Because of this, their employees donate all the food for our Thanksgiving meal each year, and they have given us a $31,500 grant because they know we exist as a valuable resource in the community. Once a year, we put a flyer for our dinner and candy in a bag or basket and take it to every local business with a note that says something like, “Thanks for being a valuable member of our community. If you know anyone who could use a meal, send them our way.” We also include information about how to sponsor one of our meals if their business would like to get involved. Many have. Donations In 2021 the World Wildlife Fund, Driven to Waste report revealed that 2.5 billion tons of food is wasted every year globally. That’s about 40% of all food produced. If that number feels too big, imagine every person throwing away 350 plates of food each year. There are literally tons of food to be had; you just have to know where to look and who to ask. We receive weekly donations from our local grocery store. We keep what we can use for dinner and distribute the rest on a grocery giveaway table each week. We are also members of our local food bank. We pay a small membership fee that gives us access to the food bank’s warehouse. Truck drivers are often responsible for disposing of any product that arrives damaged. We’ve received lots of perfectly good products in wrinkled boxes. Farmers are also often looking to move unsold and unused products. How do you get donations? Build relationships with people in your community! All of them! The ones with the food and the ones who need food. One of the most important lessons we’ve learned is this: don’t say no. If you take the full donation, even when it’s inconvenient, you become the easiest solution for that business. The easiest solution gets the first phone call next time. You will get items you don’t need. Share them with the community. Some of our best stories have come from a huge donation of a random item. Grants Grants should not be your main source of income, but they have been incredibly helpful in obtaining funding, equipment, and vehicles to make dinner happen each week. Organizations like Walmart, banks, realtor associations, and websites like 4Imprint offer easy-to-apply-for grants that can boost your impact. Before you apply for a grant, make sure you have your 501(c)(3) paperwork, statistics, and stories of how your dinner is impacting the community. Each grant requires different documentation, but these are common for most. Be creative in what grants you apply for. Your goal may be to meet needs and build community, but you are also likely rescuing food that would otherwise go to waste. You may also be providing opportunities for individuals who need community service. Each grant has a specific cause they care about. Don’t make things up, but make sure you recognize the full value you bring to the community so you can share that with organizations offering grants. I’ve found most of my grants by following local non-profits or para-church organizations that rely fully on grants. They usually have multiple full-time employees finding grants year round. When they thank a grant donor on their social media, I add it to my list of grants to explore. When we served that first meal, I wasn’t sure how we would sustain even a few weeks. Four and a half years later, God has provided over 30,000 meals, two vans, a trailer, freezers, and countless relationships that have transformed our community. My paycheck has never been late, and our budget has never been in the red. More importantly, people who once felt unseen now have a seat at the table. Dinner Church funding is not just a financial strategy. It is a discipleship journey. It teaches leaders and communities to trust that God provides through people, relationships, and unexpected sources. Provision rarely shows up as a lump sum. It often shows up as daily bread
